Goddess Mindset

Let’s face it. Life gets us down.

So much can happen that will literally destroy a woman's confidence. It can happen from family issues—our perception of not being enough. A person looked at us in a way that made us uncomfortable or insecure. Bullies, abuse, cheating lovers, rejection (or the fear of rejection). Not getting the job we didn’t even want! That is crazy to write, but it happens! Our ego steps in and can be a total bitch! Then when we don’t get the job, the raise, or the position we really do want, we are even harder on ourselves and we criticize those who have what we want! Divorce, being ghosted, TV and magazines, and now this wonderful world of the internet that is not always truthful in how life really is or how bodies really look. Oh my—You name it, it affects our confidence. As all of this and more unfolds over the years, the less confidence we have. And the more we deviate from the natural goddess that resides within.

It really does not matter if you want to find the perfect mate, your soulmate, the perfect job, the perfect clients, or the perfect life. What I am about to share will help in all areas of your life. Just to be clear: by perfect, I mean perfect for you, your dreams, and your life goals. Nothing is ever “perfect.”

I have always lived a certain way, and I have typically received what I wanted. At a young age, confidence came naturally to me. It truly is a lifestyle. A way of thinking and living. Many friends did not agree, often saying I was conceited, being rude to them, or I was insensitive. As a child or a teen, I didn’t understand what I was doing, to be able to explain, or better yet, teach! I accepted that I was as rude, insensitive, conceited, and crazy as they had told me. Now, as an adult, I understand why they may have felt this way. For adults, it is hard enough to adapt a different viewpoint onto your body about yourself, let alone for a child or teen! It had nothing to do with me though; it had to do with their confidence levels and their fear. I am no longer the person I was as an adolescent when I listened to insecure people, and now I know how to teach! So here are some ways you can create a goddess mindset and stand powerfully in your truth, with no apologies.

Ladies: this works! All of this. I have been telling women for YEARS how to accomplish this, without really even understanding the value. Now, in my early 30’s and after years of abuse and abandoning my own authentic goddess mindset, I see exactly what has happened. I lost my confidence. I lost my inner-self positive talk. I am so happy to say though, I found it again. However, not just found—it’s stronger, braver, healthier, and more confident than I have ever been. I am going to share with you some steps toward what I call “Goddess Mindset” that will help you find that confidence again, or maybe for the first time.

Everyone DESERVES to live the life they want.

1. Believe in yourself, see your worth, and work on YOU, every day in every way that makes you feel like your best version. A goddess doesn’t doubt herself, her beauty, or her abilities.

2. Make eye contact with people. Eye contact makes us look confident. In fact, as humans, we search for it. It helps us feel validated. If you’re trying to attract your soulmate, when you see a man that captures your attention, fight the urge to look away when he looks at you. Set yourself apart and look at him for a few seconds. This WILL feel weird. Hold the look, this gives him permission from you to approach you, all without words being exchanged. This also shows you are extremely confident. Same goes for job interviews, or anyone in general. It exudes friendliness to strangers and shows a future employer that you’re friendly and self-assured.

3. Hold your head high when you walk. Shoulders back, straight spine.

4. Daily affirmations. I AM Confident. I AM Brilliant. I AM Sexy. I AM my best self. Yes, this is weird at first, too! However, it is a game changer.

5. Wear things you LOVE. Makeup, hairstyles, matching sexy underwear, nice shoes, a nice purse. It does not matter. Wear what makes you feel amazing. Wear it for you, no one else. Not to get compliments, not for your significant other. You and only you. This will shine confidence.

Are you ready to give yourself permission to have the confidence you have always dreamed of? Are you ready to allow your goddess to shine? She has always been with you, and she is ready for you to allow her to help you on your life journey.

Laura Lee Harrison